Memorial Day is coming up and for those who follow the witch way or those who would like a simple observance for those they've lost, this uncomplicated ritual from runic-daydream may help you help you toward sense of connection, comfort & peace.
You will need
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A candle– White is a good all-purpose candle but you can also use one in the favorite color of your loved one or multiple candles if you feel called to.
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A photo or drawing of the person who's passed. If you don't have one, you can write their name on some paper.
Optional items:
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A small trinket/object that reminds you of the person
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Crystals: runic recommends using a crystal that reminds you of or signifies your loved one. Rose quartz and clear quartz also work wonderfully.
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Use your preferred cleansing herbs to clear the space and to clear & center your mind & energy. Lavender, rosemary, juniper, frankincense, myrrh, etc.
Instructions
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Before beginning, perform any cleansing rituals, meditation, or centering you may like to do. If it is in line with your method of practice, create a protective circle around your altar/working space.
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Set up the photo of the person in front of you, by the candle(s)
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Light the candle(s)
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For as long as you need, settle yourself until your mind is calm and clear, then say: “By the beauty of this world, and all that awaits us in the next, I remember my dear (friend/sister/brother/mother/etc). I call them to me, and honor their memory.”
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Now is the time when you can connect with your loved one. Gaze & conenctrate on the photo, hold the item you brought, maybe talk to them or write them a note if you feel like it. If you feel awkward at first, try recounting a favorite memory you shared, or telling them how much you love and miss them. Take as long for this as you like.
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When you feel ready to finish the spell, say your goodbyes to your loved one, then say: “I bid you farewell, dear (sister/friend/etc,) for now. I feel your blessing and send you my own. Until we meet again.”
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Blow out the candle(s). If you have created a protective circle, remember to close it appropriately.
We wish you all serene comfort and healthy closure and, for those who are traveling, we wish you a safe journey. Take care.